If you’re like many people, you don’t think you can have any
impact on your loved ones who’ve passed over into the Afterlife. We’ve been
conditioned to believe that the people we once knew are either above it all now––sitting
on the right hand of God, playing harps as they drift blissfully across the sky
on clouds, etc.––or else they no longer exist at all. Either way, they’re
oblivious to us and our actions here on earth … or so we’re told.
Our Loved Ones Still Exist, and They Still Love Us
Just because our loved ones no longer wear physical bodies
doesn’t mean they’re no longer alive. Noted mediums such as James Van Praag and
dedicated researchers, including Dr. Brian Weiss, Dr. Raymond Moody, Dr.
Michael Newton, and Dr. Piero Calvi-Parisetti, all present convincing evidence
in their books and other work that the death of a physical body doesn’t mean
the end of existence.
In fact, it pains our loved ones on the Other Side that we
believe they’re dead and gone, that we no longer think we can connect with them,
and that we try to push aside our feelings in order to “get on with it.” Nothing
could be further from the truth, and such beliefs create suffering for us as
well as for them.
Spirits in the Afterlife constantly try to communicate with
us. They want to let us know they’re still alive and well, to alleviate our
fears of death, and to pass on valuable information from the higher planes. A
great many get through to us too. Peter Novak in The Lost Secret of Death wrote, “67 percent of widows believe
they’ve seen, heard, or seen ghosts of the dead.”
In his book/video program Love Knows No Death Dr. Parisetti notes, “The University of
Chicago’s National Opinion Research Council found that nearly half of American
adults, 42 percent, believe that they have been in contact with someone who has
died. Of these, 78 percent said they saw, 50 percent heard, and 18 percent
talked with the departed.”
What Can You Do?
Talk to your loved ones as if they’re still here––because
they are. They’re protecting you, guiding you, slipping you messages all the
time. Don’t shy away from mentioning their names or recounting experiences you
recollect. Take joy in your memories and invite departed loved ones to share
these with you. You may be surprised to rediscover happy memories you hadn’t
thought about for years.
During meditation, invite loved ones to communicate with
you. In a relaxed meditative state you’re more open to receiving insights and
input from other planes of existence. The same holds true in the dream state. Before
you go to sleep, ask your loved ones to visit you in your dreams.
Offer healing prayers to beings on the Other Side. Your
loved ones still welcome the heartfelt thoughts and feelings you share and can
benefit from them. If you know an energy-healing modality such as Reiki, you
can send them loving energy just as you would send it to a physical person. Honor
them by lighting candles, burning incense, playing music, planting flowers, or
whatever seems right to you.
In the spirit world, souls continue learning and growing. We
can assist them in their process, as they assist us in ours.
As The Tibetan Book of
the Dead tells us,“Thine own consciousness, shining, void, and inseparable
from the Great Body of Radiance, hath no birth nor death, and is the Immutable
Light.”
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